Bdsm Glossary

noun a pair of lockable linked metal rings for securing the wrists of a prisoner, often handcuffs

verb to put handcuffs on someone

• The police officer used handcuffs to restrain the suspect.
• I can't believe they handcuffed him for such a minor offense.
• The cops slapped the cuffs on him and dragged him away.
• Debt can be like a handcuff, restricting your financial freedom.

noun a flaw or defect in a plan or process

verb to form a sharp twist or curve

• The rope had a kink in it, causing it to be less effective in securing the load.
• I can't straighten out this wire, there's a kink in it somewhere.
• I love exploring different kinks with my partner in the bedroom.
• His kink is collecting vintage records, he has quite the impressive collection.

adjective having twists, turns, or bends

• The psychologist discussed the potential psychological factors that may contribute to kinky behavior.
• Some people find it fun to experiment with kinky activities in the bedroom.
• I heard she's into some really kinky stuff, like handcuffs and role-playing.
• The artist's use of bold colors and unconventional shapes gave the painting a kinky vibe.

noun the tendency to derive pleasure from one's own pain or humiliation

• Some psychologists believe that masochism can be a sign of deeper emotional issues.
• I don't understand why some people enjoy masochism, it seems painful to me.
• Masochism is not my cup of tea, I prefer things that don't hurt.
• Embracing masochism in the face of adversity can sometimes lead to personal growth.

noun a person who derives pleasure from their own pain or humiliation

• He was labeled as a masochist due to his tendency to enjoy pain and suffering.
• I think she's a bit of a masochist for always choosing the hardest tasks.
• Don't be such a masochist and just take a break for once.
• Being a perfectionist can sometimes feel like being a masochist, always striving for an unattainable standard.

noun the tendency to derive pleasure from inflicting pain, suffering, or humiliation on others

• The psychologist studied the case of the patient exhibiting sadism towards animals.
• I heard that guy has a weird sadism streak when it comes to pranks.
• That horror movie was full of sadism, it was too much for me.
• The dictator ruled with an iron fist and a sadism that knew no bounds.

noun a person who derives pleasure from inflicting pain or humiliation on others

adjective relating to or characteristic of sadism

• The accused was described as a sadist by the prosecution during the trial.
• I heard that guy is a total sadist, always picking on people for no reason.
• That sadist over there gets a kick out of causing pain to others.
• Some people say that working for a demanding boss is like working for a sadist.

noun a slap with the open hand or a flat object

verb to slap with the open hand or a flat object as a punishment

• The teacher warned the student that if he misbehaved again, he would receive a spanking.
• I can't believe she actually spanked him in public!
• She gave him a good spank on the butt for being so cheeky.
• The team's loss in the championship game was a real spank to their ego.